Could you give any Dating Tips?
Whether you are looking for a date or currently in a relationship it can never hurt to have a few dating tips up your sleeve. There is always a do and don’t list for every occasion which will vary from one situation to the next. For most the first impression is the biggest concern that you have when trying to connect with a person of interest. Things that matter are how you approach the individual, the conversation that you use and overall how you react to them as a person.
Coming on to strong during the first stages in getting to know someone is a huge turn off especially if they are really interested in you. It’s okay to let them know that you are interested in more than friends but want to work on it gradually versus trying to force them into a relationship too fast or that you just want to sleep with them. That will not get you very far!
Things you should not do is dress inappropriatley, show up for dates late, and never talk about yourself constantly. Its fine to offer information about youself and your personal life but don’t overload your date. Someone who thinks you are only into yourself isn’t likely to go out on a second date. Showing up smelling bad is enough to run anyone off so if you can’t take the time to clean yourself up a bit then you didn’t deserve the date in the first place.
If you are male you should always offer to pay for the entire date unless you have agreed otherwise. Opening car doors and bringing along a rose may seem old fashioned but what woman doesn’t like to be treated like a princess? Sometimes the simplest things can get you the biggest brownie points.
Find time to ask your date about their likes, dislikes, their life including family and just try to get to know who they really are. Tossing in a couple of compliments here and there never hurts either. The one thing that many people have trouble with is just being honest. Have a simple conversation and just be you. If the person is really interested in you they will see the inside as well as the out. Trying to pretend to be something your not will only end you in hot water. Don’t ruin a good thing before it ever has time to develop.
The biggest thing you do not want to do is string someone along or wait too long to let someone know how you feel. If you are interested make sure they know that you are there for them and what you want. Be straight forward when you want to date them and want to take it to the next level otherwise cut them loose and move on.
Never try to date two people at once because again it won’t get you anywhere other than stressed and make you very unpopular. If you do not want to be in a relationship so you are free to see different people that is your option but make sure anyone you take out knows where you stand. Honesty is always the best policy. Best of Luck!